The 8, 9 or 10 Month Sleep Regression: Signs and Tips on How to Survive it

The 8, 9 or 10 Month Sleep Regression: Signs and Tips on How to Survive it

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The 8 month sleep regression, which often evolves into the 9 or 10 month sleep regression, is all about the massive physiological developmental changes your baby is experiencing at this time. At this age, most babies are learning to crawl or even stand, and they will have language explosions! And, because babies like to practice at any time, they might start talking or standing in the crib instead of sleeping in the middle of the night. Not to mention many 8 month old babies start transitioning from three naps to two naps a day. So they might start resisting some naps or waking earlier in the lunch nap. All this can cause a big disruption to their usual sleep patterns.

This 8, 9 or 10 sleep regression is extremely similar to the 6 (or 5/7) month sleep regression. It really all depends on how soon your baby is reaching certain development milestones!

Just remember and take comfort in knowing that, like the 4 month sleep regression or the 6 month sleep regression, the 8 month sleep regression is a sign that your baby is properly developing!

Also read: Baby waking up multiple times a night: here’s what you need to know.

8, 9 or 10 Month Old Sleep Regression: The Causes

Here’s some of the things that your baby may be experiencing and that could cause the 8, 9 or 10 month sleep regression:

  • Crawling / Scooting / Starting to Stand: most babies between the age of 8 and 10 months will start to do any of these things. Some babies even start to walk at 9 months! And babies like to practice, even at night unfortunately! If this is the case, you might find your baby standing in the crib or crawling around. What might also happen is that, with all this energy that they are burning, they will start getting hungrier at night and ask for an extra feed.
  • Talking: by this age, most babies are constantly babbling and you might even hear “mama” or “dada”. This can be super cute during the day, but not so cute when your baby likes to practice in the middle of the night.
  • Separation anxiety: this can also start with babies any time after 6 months, and you will find that a baby that was always OK to sleep in their own room, will start being upset all alone in their crib at night.
  • Teething: teeth also start to emerge between 6 and 12 months, and the pain behind it might wake your baby up at night.

My second baby for example, really seemed to be needing that extra feed at night. She started crawling and sitting by herself quite early at 6 months, and by 10 months she took her first step. I think she was just burning too much energy during the day! Plus, I was breastfeeding her and, with breastfeeding, it usually takes babies a bit longer to drop all feeds at night. My first daughter, on the other hand, didn’t start moving until much later and was bottle fed. So, other than the occasional nights with teeth coming through, she cruised through the 6 and 8 month sleep regressions. She made up for it later on though!

Tips on How to Survive It

Here are some tips on how to tackle and survive the 8, 9 or 10 month sleep regression as soon as you’ve identified the causes of the sleep disruption:

  • If your baby likes to be active at night because they are getting quite mobile, take advantage of all this energy and let them explore as much as possible during the day. This will tire them out.
  • If your baby likes to stand up in the crib, try not to give them too much attention and see if they can get back down by themselves. Most baby will learn how to do it quite quickly. You could also help them practice getting back down during the day: the more they practice, the better they’ll get at it.
  • If your baby is getting stuck on the side of the crib, or getting tangled in sheets, consider a sleeping bag. This is actually the safest option for babies until they are old enough to put their blanket on or take it off by themselves.

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  • If your baby likes to practice chit chatting at night, try let them babble for as long as they want and see if they go back to sleep by themselves. If they start crying, you may need to look at some sleep training. You can have a look here -> at gentle sleep training methods that involve little to no cry.

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  • If they love all the social interaction before going to bed and are very excited when you put them down at night, they will struggle to fall asleep. You need to help them wind down by removing them from the exciting environment and create a calm sleep routine. You can try a bath, a massage, a book or a song, for example. The more consistent you are with this routine, the easier it will be for your baby to associate it with sleep.
  • If they start waking up at night and seem to really need an extra feed, you might just have to be patient and offer that extra feed until they are more established on solids and don’t need it anymore. That said, by 9 month old, they shouldn’t need to feed at night anymore.
  • If they are teething, again, you just need to be a bit patient and offer your baby all the comfort they need. What I found to be quite useful is applying some teething powder on the gums before bedtime. Have a look here for teething signs and symptoms.

One note based on personal experience: if your baby is hungry and starts feeding more (or again) at night, be aware that it could easily become a new sleep association. Particularly if breastfeeding. As in, they can’t fall back to sleep without you feeding them first. If you see that the extra feed(s) drags for to long, you might want to loose that sleep association and look at some gentle sleep training.

Things to consider

One thing that I have learnt is that it is not always easy to identify the cause of your baby waking up at night and it can be a bit of a (not so easy) process of elimination. Be ready to be armed with a lot of patience.

Also, keep in mind that when babies are not too tired yet to go to sleep, they may still end up waking a lot at night. The same happens if they are overtired, because the stress hormone builds up and wakes them in between sleep cycles. Have a look here -> for a sample 8, 9 or 10 month old baby schedule to make sure your baby is getting the right amount of sleep during the day.

Make sure you put your baby down to sleep when they are ready to sleep! Keep an eye on the signs that they are tired, and follow a good day routine. Signs that your baby is tired are:

  • Pulling of the ears
  • Rubbing the eyes
  • Yawning
  • Fluttering the eyelids or difficulty focusing
  • Arching backwards
  • Sucking the fingers

Other Tips for a Good Night Sleep

Here’s a few things that I would recommend you looked at to help your baby have a good night sleep:

  • sleeping bag: This can really help if your baby is getting stuck on the side of the crib. Plus, at this stage, babies are very mobile and with a sleeping bag you can make sure that your baby doesn’t kick off any blanket and get too hot or cold.
  • A dark room: have black-out curtains or blinds that make the room as dark as possible
  • white noise machine: this will create a comfortable environment that calms the baby, helping them to fall asleep faster. Also great to cover up the noise of the sibling running around the house when the baby is sleeping. You know what I mean if you have an older kid and a baby at home! I use the Hushh Portable White Noise Machine, which is awesome. I can also take it with me in the car or in the stroller.
  • Sleep training: if you are exhausted and struggling with baby sleeping, and none of the information above seems to help, I would really recommend looking at sleep training and getting the professional help of a sleep consultant. The older the babies get the harder sleep training becomes, so it’s good to address bad sleeping habits sooner rather than later. I learned this lesson the hard way with my first daughter! I have put together here -> a list of gentle sleep training methods that involve little to no crying if you want to have a look. There are also some programs that offer FREE resources.

And the most important thing: follow your instinct and your baby’s cues! No matter what you read or learn, if it’s not working, it might not be the right thing to do for yourself or the baby at that point in time. The sleep program I followed, for example, only encouraged a 10 minutes sleep in the afternoon at 6 months. Turned out that Michaela, my second daughter, was way too tired at night with just 10 minutes in the afternoon. Once I increased the afternoon sleep to a full sleep cycle of 45 minutes, she started sleeping better at night as well.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long does the 8 month sleep regression last?

Sleep regressions in general usually last for 2 to 6 weeks. However, this is as long as you don’t begin to assist them back to sleep. If you do that, then your baby will get used to you putting them back to sleep and this will become a new sleep association for them. Meaning they won’d be able to fall back to sleep by themselves. If this happens, the sleep regression will drag for longer and you will need to look at sleep training.

How do you survive the 8 month sleep regression?

Be patient, this too shall pass! 🙂 Follow my suggestions above and talk to a sleep consultant, or go through a baby sleep program. Click here -> for a list of gentle sleep training methods and programs that involve little to no crying if you want to have a look.

How do I sleep train my 8 month old?

There are different sleep training methods that are suitable for a 8 month old and that you could try. I have put together a list of 6 of them <-here,

Does sleep get better after the 8 month regression?

One thing that I learnt about having babies is that the path to improvement is never straight and you’ll go through so many ups and downs, you will stop caring about “when will it get better?” 🙂 It will get better, but then it might get worse again, and so on and so forth, possibly until they are teenagers, who knows. But we’ll all have to face other problems by the time they are 13!

Can I let my 8 month old cry it out?

If you want to give Cry It Out (CIO) a go, you could start at 8 month old. However, know that CIO can be very hard on both the babies and the parents. There are other gentle sleep training methods that are effective and involve little to no crying. I have put together a list of 6 of them <-here

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